This is one of the best, most loving and bible based teachings I have heard on this issue, which everyone who has questions about should take the time to listen to. It is short (6-1/2 minutes), to the point and pretty hard to refute or get angry about.
I pray you are blessed, built up in your faith and Christian walk, and become an interactive participant in God's Morning. We are here as Christ's body, supporting and building each other up in all righteousness, in His name, awaiting His soon return. Maranatha!